Anger

If you are born with this inner truthfulness and fairness then no matter how hard the shaitan tries he cannot make you speak lies or do injustice knowingly… because there are some characteristics of your personality that are a gift from Allah and which he has destined to be a part of your life forever… no one can shake them or break them…

But then the shaitan wont leave you alone just like that… so if you are fair and truthful then he will constantly pinch you about the injustices of other people… if you are soft and kind then he will keep reminding you how harsh and unkind other people are… 

Thus he succeeds in making you angry and upset…and the thing is that if you haven’t done anything wrong then you wont even blame yourself for getting angry… because you will think that it is justified… like you deserve to feel how wrong others are… and you deserve to express it too…

The trick of the shaitan is that by making you so overwhelmed with your emotions he will leave you totally incapable of using your intellect… however wise you might be otherwise… and you wont even realize that you are actually spoiling your own goodness by burning it with anger and resentment…

Emotions are good only when they lead you to goodness… otherwise just being good in your own self is no use unless you are forgiving for others deficiency too… No one is perfect… and you also have flaws which you want others to overlook…

So give that gift of acceptance and forgiveness which you want for yourself too…

As for wanting others to leave their bad habits… that is a good intention… provided you act on it with extreme love and kindness… the same love and kindness that you want for yourself…

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